The Moment Writing Changed My Life Forever | Confusion to Clarity #3

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On a crisp September morning in 2019, I walked into school feeling invincible. The night before, I had finished my fourth blog post, and I couldn’t wait to tell my friends. In my mind, I was the next J.K. Rowling, and my classmates? Die-hard Harry Potter fans waiting to praise my latest masterpiece.

Reality hit hard.

As I shared my blog, one of my friends interrupted halfway:
“Yeah, that’s great. But what’s the point of all this?”

Stunned, I replied, “It’s to help people practice gratitude.”

He smirked, “No, really. What’s the point of writing a blog? Do you think anyone here will even read it? Do you think you’ll ever become a writer?”

Ouch. That hurt. But I refused to show it. Instead, I brushed it off with, “I just like to write. That’s the point.”

But deep inside, his words lingered. Doubts began to creep in, questioning why I was doing what I loved when nobody seemed to care. That day, I whispered to myself, “I need a long walk around this school to process this.”

Looking back now, five and a half years later, I can’t help but smile.

At 18, I’m a two-time author, a world record holder, a speaker, and a purpose-driven change-maker. Writing, the thing I doubted most that day, has become my greatest gift.

Why Writing?

If that same friend asked me today, my answer would be simple:
“Writing gives me the power to create change. It’s not just a skill; it’s a superpower. Words can spark revolutions, heal hearts, and inspire lives. That’s the point of writing.”

As I reflect on this journey, I realize there are three life-changing lessons I’ve learned through writing—and these lessons apply to everyone, no matter your path.

Lesson 1: Creativity is Not a Luxury—It’s a Necessity

We live in a left-brained world, obsessed with logic, numbers, and practicality. But here’s the truth: without creativity, life becomes mechanical.

Research from Harvard Medical School shows that engaging in creative activities—like writing, painting, or music—improves mental well-being, reduces stress, and even boosts problem-solving skills. Creativity isn’t just “fun”; it’s fuel for your brain.

For me, writing is my creative outlet. For you, it could be singing, painting, dancing, or anything that makes your soul come alive.

The happiness factor is undeniable too. Studies reveal that when you engage in creative activities, your brain releases dopamine—the “feel-good” neurotransmitter. Creativity doesn’t just spark joy; it ignites passion.

So, here’s my advice: find your creative outlet. Paint something messy, dance like no one’s watching, or try writing your thoughts in a journal. Creativity isn’t just about creating art—it’s about reconnecting with the child in you who wasn’t afraid to dream.

Lesson 2: Clarity is Power

Have you ever read something so convoluted you gave up halfway through? That’s what happens when we fail to prioritize clarity.

One of my early lessons as a writer was this: no matter how profound your message is, if it’s buried under a pile of complicated words, no one will dig it out.

In fact, researchers at Stanford found that concise and clear communication enhances credibility and trust. When your words are sharp and purposeful, people listen.

Here’s an example:

  • Complicated: “A precipitation-related event may transpire within the geographical vicinity over the next few hours.”
  • Clear: “It might rain soon.”

Which one grabs your attention? Exactly.

This isn’t just about writing—it’s about life. Whether it’s pitching an idea, answering a question in an interview, or explaining your dreams to someone, clarity builds confidence. It shows you’ve done the work, and you’re serious about making an impact.

To achieve clarity, ask yourself these questions:

  • What am I really trying to say?
  • Is this as simple as I can make it?
  • Does this inspire action or leave people guessing?

Lesson 3: Time is Fleeting—Follow Your Heart

This year, I did something bold. I calculated how many days I might have left if I live to 90. The number? 26,196.

Today, that number is already 13 days smaller.

Thinking about time like this changes everything. Each day becomes precious. You realize there’s no time to waste doing things that don’t light you up.

For me, writing and inspiring others ignite my soul. The late nights spent typing, the countless edits, the vulnerability of putting my thoughts out there—it’s all worth it. Writing is what I was born to do.

What’s your thing? What sets your soul on fire? Life’s too short to ignore it.

Elizabeth Gilbert once said, “A creative life is an amplified life. It’s a bigger life, a happier life, an expanded life, a hell of a more interesting life.” The amplified life isn’t reserved for a lucky few—it’s available to everyone brave enough to pursue what they love.

Final Thoughts: What Will You Do With Your Days?

If you’ve ever doubted your passions, let this be your sign to keep going. Embrace creativity, seek clarity, and make your days count.

And remember Rumi’s timeless words: “Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray.”

Take a moment today to reflect: What do you really love? What’s that one thing you could do forever, even if no one believed in you? Hold onto it and never let it go.

Because one day, when the world asks, “What’s the point?”—you’ll smile and say, “This is my gift, and I’m here to share it.”

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